i choose, therefore i am.
Just went to xiao fang's son one-year old birthday.
everyone is asking me why yiwei din go so i came back home and told her what everyone says. And this is what she told me: "it's because of you that i did not go!"
this is what happen before that.. she call me and ask me when am i going for the bdae bash and i told her im going after i finish my service.. den she say she had a headache.. dunno whether she wanna go or not.. and i told her: "if you have the heart, then you will go." den she say say byebye and hang off the phone.
what a nuisance.
I believe that a person can be influence by others.. but i also believe that
THE CHOICE is made by the person. alone. Dont' do something bad and blame it on others!
It is exactly like a compulsive gambler telling his family it is because of them, for the good of their family, that he gamble. A person who sin and say that it's the devil that tempt him to do so. Ultimately, the choice to do it or not is up to
YOU.
when you gamble, you loss your money together with your family respect and diginity. when you sin against God, you loss your connection with god and you loss yourself too. And when you blame others for what you
CHOOSE to do, you loss the other's respect for you and you lose to yourself for being taken over by anger.
I believe that i make my OWN choice. be it good or bad. no one can make the choice in my life for me.